Learning to fantasise
If you don't find sexual fantasy comes easily, you can learn. Erotica can help; try exploring bookshops for erotic books and art. There's also a wealth of magazines available to suit any taste. And your local video store will stock a range of films, from romantic and slapstick to thrillers and more explicit 18-rated movies.
Find out what turns you on. Then with the help of relaxation techniques, lie back and allow your mind to build your personal favourite.
The most common male fantasies include:
- having sex with an existing partner
- giving and receiving oral sex
- having sex with more than one person
- being dominant
- being passive and submissive
- reliving a previous experience
- watching others make love
- trying new sexual positions
The most common female fantasies include:
- having sex with an existing partner
- giving and receiving oral sex
- having sex with a new partner
- romantic or exotic locations
- doing something forbidden
- being submissive
- reliving a previous experience
- being found irresistible
- trying new sexual positions
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